The Past

  What you need to know about the past is that no matter what has happened, it has all worked together to bring you to this very moment. And this is the moment you can choose to make everything new. Right now. Author Unknown   The Past is Gone Forever   The past is gone for ever. Therefore, you can never get it back, at least not at the time of this writing, nor can we travel into the future at this time. As a result, we never get to...

Missing my Grandchildren

Few things are more delightful than grandchildren fighting over your lap. Doug Larson Missing my Grandchildren   Missing my grandchildren as I usually do every day. They are both beautiful children with their unique personalities. One is strong and determined; the other is gentle and smiling all of the time. I miss seeing them. It is truly different being with your grandchildren as opposed to being with your very own children. Having...

What is Instinctive Love

"Love is but the discovery of ourselves in others, and the delight in the recognition." Alexander Smith   What is Instinctive Love?   Instinct love is the most basic stage of love. It is the kind of love a mother has for her unborn child. This kind of love also occurs for siblings , even before they get to know their new baby brother or sister. An older child who welcomes their new baby brother or sister for example. The love is often...

What are the Qualities of a Warm Hearted Individual

Keep your heart open for as long as you can, as wide as you can, for others and especially for yourself. Morrie Schwartz   Qualities of Warm Hearted People   I love being around warm hearted people because they have a very calming affect on me. The qualities of these  people is that they tend to be affectionate, generous, sympathetic, considerate, and all around loveable. Therefore this is not an act that they put on to get noticed, but,...

Getting Help

    I Ask for Help   We all need help now and again. Getting it is not the issue, but asking for it can be humiliating, Most of us have been raised to become independent and that does not encourage anyone to ask for a hand out.. There were times in my life when asking for support made me feel as though I was giving my power away. I felt it meant that another person had some control over my circumstances. And I felt that I was...

Asking for Help

I Have a Difficult Time Asking for Help     I have a difficult time asking for help, admitting how inadequate I feel and embarrassed to think I am a failure. It is  embarrassing to have people know how terrified I am to do or to even learn something new. The process of wondering what others will think about me makes it even worse. There are times when it isn't about learning something new. It could be that I am down on my luck, and I...

I Can do This

I'm Thinking I can do This     I'm thinking about self love today. I've been really tough on myself these past few days and it isn't much fun. There is no need to do this, therefore, I don't know why I do this to myself so often. I end up having terrible days and miserable headaches and all I want to do is run away from the things I need and want to do. I have a feeling that many of us go through these days, therefore, I know I have...

I’m Back!

             Hello Everyone! I Know not What the Future Will Bring   It's really great to be back again, however, I am still struggling with content. I feel like I have little more to say on the topic of love. Strange, for it seems impossible to not have anything more to say. I want to continue with blogging on this topic so I am asking for your help with topics. I still have many people dropping in to visit...